Small lil things i tend to forget.

Hye there, hye there hye there. :).
There's couple of things i wanted to share.
I was soo disturbed by this something something so i thought why not shared it together with u guys. Aww i know how much u bloggers love listening to other people's problem right. JK. ;p

So it all started from a simple conversation between my sister and brother. Perbualan antara dua adik beradik, u know, the usual. In a car. I'm sitting at the back, secara tidak langsung menjadi pendengar yg mendengar, terdengar...bla bla bla...ehm

Bagi yg x tau sy ad adik bradik yg rmai. dan yg paling bongsu (L) umur 14. TAPI, dia antara yg PALING tinggi dlm keluarga. and ya sy paling pendek. Because of his height, we tend to treat him like an adult. Bila dia start gedik2 buat perangai manja kita macam "aih apesal la budak ni, da besa panjang da pun".

MAIN point here
Physically YES, but mentally dia baru 14 y/o. Kita/SAYA (in case korang tana rasa terlibat sekali kan :D) selalu under impression yg kalau budak ni BESA/PANJANG dia matang bagai la kan, dan cara layanan kita dekat dia pun mcm org dewasa, dia buat salah sikit kita marah, buat tu sikit kita marah, maybe kalau muka dia "babyface" tu "beringat" la juga kita yang dia ni still "budak2". TAPI kalau muka xde nampak mcm budak2 + dgn ketinggian mcm tu ada kamu nak layan dia mcm budak2? of course la idok kan. So ni yang sy nak STRESS kan. Sy slalu lupa yg dia cuma budak berumor 14 tahun. So why not give some attention to ur lil brother, its ok for him to make something "cute". He deserved it kan. X perlu nak condemn la sbb dia tggi,muka x babyface kamu layan dia mcm org dewasa. Igt. dia bru FORM 2 kot. Ubah mindset.

PS : klu abg nya umo 20++ x salah kan panggil budak 14 tahun BUDAK . :)

"maturity comes with experience, not with age"

..that's what i thought..

Cerita nombor dua. Ini berkaitan dgn orang tua kita. Ni pun kita selalu lupa. As we become older, umur,physical kita meningkat. Tapi mentality kita dengan parent kita x pernah berubah. sentiasa inginkan diorg punya perhatian. Wlpun umur da 30,40+ pun i still rasa yg setiap ANAK inginkan perhatian drpd IBU BAPA mereka. TETAPI, pernah tak kita fikir, yg diorg pun semakin berusia. Pernah tak tgk muka mereka dan fikir, they are getting older. Make u feel sad right ?..klu x pena tgk lpas ni ce try tgk n fikir !

MAIN POINT LAGI SEKALI :D

Wlpun kita NAK sangat2 perhatian drpd mereka, akan smpai masa kita kene korbankan "keinginan" kita dan mula berbakti pada mereka. X perlu nak makan hati sgt kalau apa yang kita suarakan diorg x "ambil peduli"..it is time for us to start repay them for what they 've done for us. Dari kita baby comei2 smpai muka mcm abah org dorg jaga kita kan..ape la sangat "keinginan" kita ni berbanding kesihatan mereka. 

PS: I guess i've done my job bery2 well today. So selamat hari raya LAGI ,renung2kan dan selamat beramal. dadada. 

OH BTW HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO AIMI + ALYA. The gojes twin. ;)

here's A cake for both of you.

oh crap now i feel hungry. :D